From the Locked Cock for Tiffany's Tumblr blog, I swear each one makes me tingle 'down there':
Here are suggestions for some less intense ways
of pushing a submissive man’s buttons. Most of these undoubtedly are not
original as there’s really nothing new under the sun, and FemDom is no
exception. Some of these may work for some folks and not for others. All
personalities, likes and dislikes vary.
1. Send him emails in which you mention his
submissive behavior or address him as your sub, slave, knight, servant,
boytoy or whatever. Or send text messages.
2. Have him wear panties to work,
preferably yours and preferably dirty. Not every day: it’ll become too
routine. Ask him what his coworkers would think if they knew he was
wearing your panties.
3. Give him an allowance and require he account for his expenditures.
4. Tell him to buy a chastity device. No negotiation, no discussion.
5. Lock him up periodically. Leave it on
for a day or two or seven, or however long you wish, so he never knows
how long he’ll be locked up. Always be the one to lock and unlock the
device. Make a point of inspecting it daily and teasing him about being
at your mercy. Be sure to have him service you while wearing it.
6. Have him keep a journal in which he
records his thoughts and submissive feelings. Read it once a week while
he kneels naked at your feet.
7. Make a habit of sliding your hand (or
foot) into his crotch and saying something like, “Getting to be a horny
sub are we?” Or, “Since Mr. Willy belongs only to me, I can fondle him
whenever I wish?but you may not.” Or say nothing at all: just smile and
give him a kiss on the cheek or a pat on the head.
8. Have him kneel before you and kiss your feet.
9. Have him give you foot massages and pedicures.
10. Have him lick and suck your toes.
11. Send a picture of your pussy to his cell phone with a message like, “This is the center of your world. Don’t forget it.”
12. Insist he read some of your “women’s magazines” and romance novels if you read them.
13. Have him kneel naked before you and profess
his devotion to you as his Goddess. “Hold Court” so to speak and do
this several times a week.
14. Have him wear a collar around the house.
15. Attach a leash to this collar and lead him anywhere you wish.
16. Have him perform household chores in the nude while you are clothed.
17. Have him give you full body massages.
18. Have him insert a butt plug just before
company arrives or before you both go out for an evening. Smile at him
whenever he sits down.
19. Don’t “ask” him to do something. Tell him.
“Make me a cup of tea.” “I want you to paint the den this weekend.” “I
expect you in the bedroom, naked and on your knees in 3 minutes.”
20. Ask for explanations. “Why haven’t you made our bed yet?” “Why don’t you have dinner ready?”
21. Beckon him with your finger.
22. Take every opportunity to flash him.
23. Wear especially sexy or revealing outfits.
24. Have him go shopping with you to carry your purse and packages.
25. Always pay the check when you go out to eat.
26. Insist he thank you for disciplining him.
27. Queen him.
28. Develop a tone of voice when requiring
something of him or expressing your displeasure over something. It’ll be
your “domme voice.”
